Do you ever wonder what guys are thinking about certain topics? The topic right here, right now, concerns modest dressing. This point of view comes from Jared Kempton, Alburquere, NM. Read below to get his take on how girls are dressing in this day and age.

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Jared Kempton (Albuquerque, NM)

wrote on Jun 19, 2008 at 11:47 PM

(Facebook Post)

“Not to accuse girls of being self centered, but why do they think modesty is just about them? This is a group to support abstinence, right? I’m assuming that members of this group are here to help others remain pure, not just to help themselves. With that being said, ask yourselves this, girls: Does showing off cleavage help guys remain abstinent?”

“Young men are raging hormonal hurricanes. It doesn’t take much to make them think about sex. It is where their mind naturally turns. This is why most men are total scumbags. However, there are a few out there that are trying to tame their inner animal and show that their heart and mind control their life, not their genitals. It’s a tough battle for those guys. As one that waited until I was married, I know what it was like to struggle for 14 years after puberty to remain abstinent. To help myself I would avoid movies with sex in them, I would avoid parties and places where it was going on, but I couldn’t avoid going out in public and seeing girls flaunt themselves. You women just don’t understand what it does to guys.”

“So, if you want to help those few special young men that are trying to respect themselves (and trying to respect you!) then modesty is of the utmost importance. I know it can be hard to find modest clothes, and I know it can be uncomfortable in the summer, but how much sacrifice is abstinence worth? So, help a virgin – put some clothes on.”

According to The Journal of School Nursing, “Alcohol is a common precursor to teen girl’s participation in sex parties. Click here to read the summary report about this tragic phenomenon taking place in teen culture.